Well, the answer is LAGGING OF LOVE.
What is Love?
Love means giving, without any expectations. We learn to give unconditionally by this, which leads to learning that nothing is impossible.
Rather than creating arguments with our spouse or children, first we should give them what they want. Slowly, we will observe that they have started understanding us and loving us very much.
Everyone of us should learn to give. We should start giving to the people at home and the people we live selflessly.
Love is the only thing which transforms us completely. Not even death has the transforming power. So if we truly love, then there will be only love without any space for us or our identities.
We generally accept the things or people if we like but it becomes so hard in the case of dislike. We experience this kind of duality called likes and dislikes without love. But with love, there is no scope for duality, we love everyone and everything. We get an acceptance power as it is without judging them.
We will be free of worries, which is a state of joy that leads to bliss. As there will be so much of elaboration of your mind, our hidden habits or unconscious mind or samskaras, become a part of the conscious mind. It is a way to be aware of our karma.
Karma means action. Actions happen because of deep imprints in our inner mind or subconscious mind.
Those deep imprints are samskaras, which are consequences or effects of our previous actions .
We do more karma or actions because of those deep imprints or samskaras stimulated in our subconscious mind.
But it does not mean that we should give away our materialistic things like wealth to the strangers. It is all about transforming our personality to the positivity.
Materialistic dealings should be done according to our roles and responsibilities.