But from the decades there is a perception about the words, "Wife" and "Husband", which gives a limited meaning to the "Marriage". And that meaning has shrunk the aim in the marriage relationship.
It is a harmonious ocean of friendship, till the end of the life. Whereas, the dependency or need is just a part of that big ocean out of love.
So that, they both can lead a variety of roles to each other like mother, father, crazy kids.. then well-wisher, teacher or guru, mirror and creators.
So let the window of this relationship be cleaned and maintain its innocence and purity.
Journey of Marriage Relation by Ship on the Love
Both have to respond to the each others feelings gently, so that a comfort creates between them.
They have to spare some time to sit in silence or meditation, which leads to the spiritual union.
A relationship should grow from a seed to a tree. Do not kill it, in it's plant stage itself.
Daily little discussions make the couple to fall in love again and again. Talk about the future, dreams, aims and decide that both should help each other for each other's welfare. And most importantly, it should be limited just to tell the opinions.
“It is not a lack of love, but a lack of friendship that makes unhappy marriages.”
- Friedrich Nietzsche
In fact, it clearly shows up that, still there is a feeling of "My Life" and "Your Life", even after the merge.
Happiness in the marriage depends on the quality of the relationship and how it develops year by year. Because, it makes the wife's and the husband's life to travel closer towards "Our Life", which exists at the center and become a single world.
Who is wrong in a relation is not the question;
Whose life is that is the real question!
Stop expecting the whole world to be according to you and start accepting it as it is.
Lead a beautiful life, however the world may be.