Everyone of us could have experienced the adjustment to disagreeable situations in our life.
For example, if it rains suddenly, while we are walking on the road, we simply adjust to it by accepting. We never question or argue or oppose. Because we know that, it is not in our hands to stop the rain. So no point of behaving opposed.
But the same kind of adjusting nature is not applied to deal with the people who disagree with us. Instead, argue and fight with them or take their words or actions to the heart and suffer internally.
For instance, someone criticizes or abuses or resists when you are doing something opposite to his/her point of view or the level of understanding. Then you may feel yourself very down hearted.
In such condition, first try to explain your point of view to the people who bother you. Because they might not have the capacity to understand the other's point of view. If they still do not understand or not even trying to do so, then ignore and understand that, this is your limit of responsibility to consider about others views. Never try to overlap your opinion on them forcefully. Instead you understand their point of view as it is, since no two flowers give the same fragrance. It gives you the power to accept them. This is nothing but an adjustment.
So in such circumstances, we should never forget our adjusting nature. Otherwise, it may cause to lose inner peace, sometimes even drive us to enter into the fights.
So irrespective to the situations, we should always focus to balance our inner peace by adjusting to the people and the situations. This is absolutely possible when we are under our control.
Never think or feel that you should adjust for other's benefit. Always remember that we should do so, for the smoothness in our life. It is done in the case of unchangeable situations. This is something like, a river crosses the stones and flows continuously, which obstructs its way .
Adjustment is a synonym for acceptance with like.
It is not about to tolerate, It is all about adjustment. Don't confuse between tolerance and adjustment. In fact both are antonyms in one sense.
Tolerance means to understand others only from your point of view and accept with dislike.
Adjustment means the capacity to understand the others from their point of view and accept with like.
Adjustment is a lock which does not allow external stimulus to trigger us.
can overcome any sort of situation with more ease
2. Life is a constant changing process. So everyone should have an ability of adjusting to
3. Adjustments should be according to our time of living.
4. The more you adjust, the more your inner power will raise.
5. Adjust is possible if we have the tendency to accept and correct our mistakes.
Do we fight or cry with these seasons..?
Absolutely not right!! Instead we compromise, adjust and enjoy with the days.
Then why do we restrict ourselves and do not adjust with our fellow human beings who have different point of views naturally, like our seasons.
Ultimately, what are we going to gain with this separation ?
Should we have to work out hard or tone our muscles, to spring up a sweet smile on our face.. or else should we have to move hills and acquire the life or death achievement to get happiness and peace.
Such an easy, simple and heartful smile is enough to accept and adjust with others as they are, which in turn create more possibility for the others to accept us.
What is the peace more than this..
A bud for the recognition as a human being, a season which grows the relationship and a path to open the heart is an everlasting smile on our face. As it is perfectly possible with an adjusting nature.
Always keep smiling!!!!