In one way we should feel happy for the comfort levels of making friendship, due to our evolution in the technology. But in an another way, the question arises that how many of such friendships are real and based on the values?
Yes.. some or other time, we absolutely need help from others. But is it a good value to use others in a mask of friendship and disregard them once it is done?
It is nothing but lack of clarity within ourselves about what we really want and making fools of ourselves.
If we keep on carrying this confusion as friendship, then as the situations change in our life, need and focus on the friendship also changes parallely. After a certain time, it may lead to ignore the people whom we considered as friends or dislike the things in them, what we used to like in the past.
A friend is a one who supports and makes us comfortable even in the worst situations. Everything may change but a friend never changes. A true friend accepts us as we are, without judgement.
Relationship with you and your friend will be like an overlapped area between the two intersected circles.
Instead we can be straight to the others and ask or request for help openly. This makes a matured and mutual understanding relationship. So that we can also be clear about ourself.
If we meet our true friend we approach him the way we know him and there will be mutual comfort zones. They never consider sharing as a give and take policy. They never regard friendship as an advantage or something else. Friendship overlaps each others views and makes them feel as one. It is not about emotion. It is all about involvement with each other.
Take time and just feel at least one such moment with your friend, then you never need to depend on any technology to maintain your relationship. Your heart can know and understand that it will last long.
A friendship is a pure bond which forms beyond the needs. Friendship is an essential part of being human. We can get peace, joy, security and many other gifts by having friends, and being a friend to others. It has been proved that people who have good friends live happy, healthy and long life.
The relationship between Lord Krishna and Sudama stands as the best example for true friendship ever.
Later Krishna became a great king whereas Sudama's financial condition became worse. At that time the Sudama's wife reminded him about Lord Krishna and asks him to go and ask for help. But Sudama think that how Krishna still remember him as he became king. Because of his wife's force, Sudama somehow decides to meet Krishna by packing some puffed rice to Krishna. Since in the childhood days Krishna used to eat them with great like.
Once he reached the Krishna's palace, security people obstructs him to enter into the palace because of his worst attire. But once Krishna heard about his friend Sudama's arrival, he rushed to meet him with intense happiness and gave him a wonderful and royal welcome. Krishna even washed the feet of Sudama with his own hands.
Krishna accepts the puffed rice brought by Sudama as a precious gift and eat it with great like as he used to in the childhood days. Krishna also helps Sudama to cope up with his financial status.
Mutual trust and love between two the people blend to form ever lasting friendships. It is a great valued relationship which brings out the noble feature in the people who act selflessly for each other's well being.
This article is dedicated to my friends.. who always feel and also make me feel the real fragrance of friendship.