But we can always be happy and do the things which drives us to the happiness. It is absolutely possible if you strongly wish it.
Usually we do all the things with an intention to be happy. So why should we give the steering of our happiness to the outer stuff and become slave to it ? Why can't we be master for our own happiness ?
Real happiness does not come by attaining something. It comes from within. It always lies in satisfaction.
Being happy within ourself is possible by understanding, accepting and loving ourself.
Pamper yourself and be friendly with yourself. When any of our dear ones are in a bad situation, we go to them, take up the responsibility to console and make them happy.
Then why can't we do the same for ourselves ? Why should we wait for the others or expect from the others to make us happy ?
We can come out of any kind of situation by some self console and counseling. This kind of attitude drives us to become powerful and independent. But we need internal energy which is possible through meditation, to acquire this kind of habit.
When we know and accept that we are responsible for our life, we automatically focus on the stuff and do the things which makes us happy. So that we create peace within and around us. We can also start enjoying our life to the maximum by discovering many new angles. Finally we can live life and make others to live in the better world.
However taking up the responsibility of our happiness on our own is a kind of challenging for some of us. Even though they always prefer to overcome the challenge, they do not find the way to do.
So here are some of the tips that may help to discover happiness within yourselves:
Forgive yourself for being coarse to your dear ones or elder people. Do not let you down by
thinking negative about yourself, which leads to take wrong steps or decisions. It may also
make you to focus on the problems rather than solutions. Always say and affirm good things
2. Forgive others :
Always let go the things quickly, which bother you. It is a waste of energy to hold grudges on
others. It may cause many psychic problems or cardiac problems. So it is very much essential
to forgive others with patience. The easy way to forgive others is, to understand their real
intention to behave so.
3. Do not over think about problems :
Stop always discussing or thinking about your problems. Instead shift your focus on the good
in each and every situation you face.
Bless others whenever possible. According to the karma principle, whatever we give, it will
definitely come back to us. Our life is not meant only to receive, it is also meant to give.
5. Be a busy bee :
An idle mind is the devil's workshop. So always be busy with an activity you like to do.
6. Appreciate your success :
Remember the things you have achieved so far. Recount the compliments you received from
others. Recap the situations where others are happy because of you. Never focus on what you
have not achieved or do not have. Always focus on what you have achieved or you already
have. This kind of attitude makes you feel contented.
7. Spend quality of time to enjoy :
Spend time on reading books, listening to music, watching movies etc. These kind of activities
diverts and gives relaxation to your mind from miseries.
8. Do not give your happiness remote to others :
Always remember that we cannot please everyone. So do not waste your time and energy to
please others. Others always understand what they want, its your foolishness to give
explanations to win their attention.
9. Always be hopeful :
Hope is a great weapon to face challenges. Hope paves the path towards happiness. It makes
to feel that, whatever the problem is there, it's just temporary. Everything is going to be fine in
the future. Hope is the seed for the positive attitude.
Happiness is the one which dawns from within and always be in our hands, if we really understand the meaning and purpose of our life.
Ultimately discovering happiness within ourself, depends on us.