So many people even write poetry inspired by the beauty of that feeling.
It is said that, Love is a connection between two hearts and is a beautiful feeling experienced by the two people in it.
Is it really true? Is love a connection between two hearts?
Difference between Illusion and Reality
Illusion is an unreal, which seems to be relatively realistic. It is a byproduct which manifests out of something else.
What is an Illusion Love?
It is so because, when the light falls on an object and reflects back in our eyes, we are able to sense that object by seeing.
But we cannot see and sense that light itself with our naked eyes, as it does not create a reflection into our eyes.
It is the one, through which the process of interaction happens with the outer world and inputs the sensory impressions and information.
It is the one, which makes cognitive discrimination, decide, judge and differentiate. It determines the wiser one in this dual world.
It is the storage place of the number of deep and hidden impressions.
It provides the identity to the functions and also creates the separation of our feelings like alienation and pain etc.
Let us see how the world created by the mind is responsible for the feeling, LOVE
So out of those images in the sub-conscious mind, there are certain images, that he/she cannot perceive in themselves.
Example: If it is a girl, she may have certain images/impressions in her sub-conscious mind regarding male physic looks or the particular masculine qualities. Vice verse, in the case of a boy.
Just that other person's presence alone makes them feel complete.
Once he/she tastes this completeness, they experience a kind of bliss. So in a struggle to acquire this bliss again and again, they become possessive towards that other person and always expects their company. And also miss them desperately in their absence.
Hence according to these kind of people, a feeling which is experienced out of this magical attraction is Love.
One who cannot recognize his/her image/impression in their sub-conscious mind or do not have any of them or do not come across the people in their life, who give life to the image in their sub-conscious mind, voluntarily creates an attraction.
So, when such a kind of person comes across another person who can fulfill his/her needs, then he/she tries to connect with that person. This connection is based on expectations like "to give and take" policy.
Illusion love is out of selfishness, which will be like "Plucking a rose flower, when we see it and gets attracted to its beauty".
Because plucking a rose, creates a feeling in our mind that, the rose is mine.
They think so, because they might have involuntarily touched the bliss out of the magical attraction, because of the image already exists in their sub-conscious mind. So it is hard for them to fall into their perception of Love feeling again.
What is the Real Love?
That means, a feeling which creates because of perceiving the person in his/her raw state or soul.
This Love is a divine and not at all possessive, does not expect anything. Where ever the other person can be, it always wishes for that person's wellness. A person who has a real love towards another person live his/her own life and let the same with their loved one too.
This kind of love can be naturally experienced with God and then with parents. That is why, parents are the mortal gods.
Real love is out of kindness and caring, which will be like "Enjoying the beauty of rose by letting it live for a long time without plucking it".
They may even lead the magical attraction created by the mind to the real love, to experience an ocean of divinity in it.