Let’s see the differences among the three to get clarity while choosing or understanding the relationship.
Mostly the love relationships in our life are Karmic. It may also be some other kind of relationships.
There will be a chance of arguments, obstacles, anger etc., from others as a part of the balancing Karma. If your wish is for a better life without internal healing then the life may be filled with confusion which leads to depression. You may feel your life as stagnated without flow.
- A strong attraction that you cannot control yourself to think about them.
- You may feel nervous for the other to accept your love or expect them to love you.
- Addicted to bad habits.
- Often arguments, fights, disrespect about each other.
- Get ready to lose your identity or even interests to please them.
- Restrictions, possibly from all angles.
- Irresponsible, make you isolated, disrespect towards your feelings, make feel stressed.
- Always use past incidents as weapons.
- Behave like a sugar coated knife, tends to cheat, do not allow to get social attention and name it as possessiveness.
- Always suspicious about you, often tend to break up and plays a drama to hold you back.
- Makes you feel depressed.
Below given are some signs of such people:
- "I cannot handle and do not want the relationship" which means get away from them.
- "I am not a suitable person to you, leave me" which means you are wasting time to convince such people.
- "Don't call me! I will call you whenever I can" which means they call you when they got nothing to do.
- "You are too good, maybe you are wasting time with me, I am not ready to love, I am not a lovable person" which means they are excusing themselves to cover their behavior.
- "You really do not want me" take this as a hint and leave them.
- "Forget about everything, we will be just friends" which means in their terms and conditions.
Sometimes you could have cut the relationship with such person but when he or she contacts you then you just forget everything and run to them and even accept their excuses foolishly.
"These are all more or less the signs of Karmic relationships."
If you question yourself that whether you really love them then the answer you may get is, you just think that you love them. You may also be in a trance that you can make them realize your love, but it is just in vain.
The real chemistry between the two people always starts from the beginning not after a lot of chaos or after your death.
What is a soul mate?
This is a relationship which makes you feel positive, an instant uplift of the spirit, energy boost up from within. It is a very strong and deep soul level attraction. In one word your soul mate will be a mirror reflection of yours.
It is very important that both the people feel the same. If it is not so then it is a Karmic relationship.
It is not that you fit perfectly with your soul mate. Sometimes there may be issues with them because of emotional imbalance. But issues can get solved very easily with them, as they do have high levels of mutual understanding nature.
Most importantly soul mate number is not fixed to one. It can be many. Many can enter into your life with different roles.
Some of the signs of Soul mate:
- Equal level of instant magnetism to the both.
- A feeling of very deep connection from the start.
- Always feels calm atmosphere and also from within.
- Mutual trust instantly.
- Instant spirit uplift, no judgements, no nervousness, encouragement.
- Always share the shoulder to cry on.
- Never feel that you are lower than them.
- Very much like you.
- Priority and importance to you than your physical needs.
- Always be gentle towards you and never restrict you.
- Loves you forever.
No relationship is simple until you put the necessary efforts to maintain peacefully. In this kind of relationship it is very much easier to put efforts and maintain.
These kind of people should understand that these kind of issues never come between the real soul mates.
It is being said in the scriptures that, in the beginning your soul is made up of two complete souls, male and female.
So you always have an energy as your companion which is a part of you internally.
Your subconscious mind will be searching for the reunion because of this.
Mainly because of this reason some people leave everything and always keep searching without any knowledge. It is not that you can find your Twin Flame always on the Earth. It may possible in
some rare cases.
So ultimately you should always be aware that you are responsible for your life.
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